youngsters problem

Hi this is Praneash.V.
When i see my friends or people in my age or below that is so called teenagers and people of late twenties, i could see most of them having many problems to themselves like marks, love, job etc..
Many people are stressed with these things, and many more have these relationship issues both with boys and girls. I always wonder that why people are more stressed even-though they have all the basic requirements that they need to be happy, but they always wanted more.
Even school students are more stressed with marks and these relationship. And the reason is parents who always impose their sons/daughters to score more marks, and into marriages and even work too.

Education is not about marks its about training the mind to think for the problems themselves, like Einstein said "if you judge a fish's talent by climbing a tree it will think itself as a fool for its whole life". This is what happening in our country, as we grow up we always forget what we learn and why did we learn. Parents and teachers should not impose to their kids about getting marks but to teach them life.

We always think about ourselves highly when we get a good marks and a placement in a company, getting married to someone even-though we would have loved or had crush on someone,  have kids and lead a life. Have we ever thought about our purpose of  living in this world, i am sure its not that i said above. and most of them think that is a normal life. Have you ever asked how would we define normal? everything is depends on how we see things and we define our own normal life but what we do now a days is that we see everyone how they are living and if we could live that way then we consider it as a normal life. We always forget the main thing which is happiness and the satisfaction which is more important, the whole life we always live for someone, our parents lived for us, we live for them and our children and this goes on, when will we live for us then? its not that way one should lead a life, i mean all are important to us but we should never lose ourselves in the process of living for others.

And majority of the youngsters now a days have this problem of relationship and they are stressed out because of this and ruining their lives and health. I am not saying that is wrong but moving on is important and considering our other problems in hand its not even an issue to be stressed. The main problem is we don't think always make our lust to take the decision and not love, and all most people need a partner since they feel lonely and they get to start a relationship and then after few days its not working so we leave, where is the love here? there is no love its just lust which made them come together and once the lust is gone its over! 

Love is something which does not come just by seeing someone it is understanding, knowing each other well and accepting their freedom, what happens here is once a guy and a girl starts to love, the guy starts dominating the girl or vice versa, there starts the problem, she/he don't like something that he/she likes and if they does there comes another gap and like this the gap goes on and on and finally its done. 

There are people who don't even have place to stay, food to eat, no peaceful sleep and so on they are living their life and moving on but some people are still like i hate to live because he/she doesn't love me, always  cherish the people who loves you, if you always show care to the person who doesn't care for you and disrespect the one who cares one day when you see they won't be around.

And another thing is the job, most people hate their job and only reason they still see it because of money and family issues. Some people need a job because they want to be independent, some need because their friends are in higher position, some need because they don't have a job. Now a days people are not thinking about the society and to its betterment always think about themselves and money, money is not the thing we need here, we need happiness and we should work towards it, make time for your friends, wherever you go in your life treat them as same as when you were together. Friends are the family we create for ourselves, never leave them in any circumstances and be always available to them. There is no family as good as friends, love them, spend time with them.